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i would never combine them, because they are two seperate major events in someones life. i wouldnt consider it to be bad etiquette, but i myself would want two parties! if the person wasnt pregnant at the time of the wedding, they would get two parties, so why should it be any different for someone who is pregnant? and on a side note, i find its better to wait until the baby is born before a shower. that way people can get 'gender specific' gifts, and buy blue or pink if they want, instead of a whole lot of yellow.  of course, there are a lot of people who would frown upon waiting, but hey, etiquette isnt a law or anything, and if they dont like it, thats their problem.
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