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MX2, I had the exact same question. I guess that I should explain how this question even came up. I rent a room to a male co-worker.
I'm going through a lengthy and ugly divorce. I have the house and a rough time playing catch up with bills that were left to me after my husband moved out. To make matters worse, my escrow account is 4k in the red from lack of adjustment, which I have to pay off over 12 months. My furnace is a 1928 coal convert. My house is old, with huge windows, and large. I got two months warning about my house payment almost doubling starting in winter months.
I knew that I couldn't afford the house. My unemployed husband refused to help me, with a jointly owned house. He is either going to let it go to the bank, after years of ownership or pushing me to sell. I needed to rent a room out to someone that would not disturb my daughter.
The guy I rented a room to, his girlfriend suddenly left him. He is quiet, keeps to himself, and has no drug or drinking issues. He needed his girlfriends financial help to pay for their apartment. He looked like you had to scrape him off the floor, for months, he was so devastated by his girlfriend moving out. He was trying hard to make it and live through his loss. He was working agency and double shifts constantly.
He needed a financial break and so did I. There have been no problems at all, with exception to minor ones. Then, I talked to his ex-live in. She is convinced he was never in the Marines and said why. It was compelling enough to give me doubts.
He has told me about a relationship, that went really bad, with a woman in the Marines, who he lived with. He told me, before his ex made accusations that he was never in the Marines. He said that she burned everything he owned, I mean fire. He had nothing, after this relationship. He has talked to me about her and how bad their relationship went, while he was in the Marines.
Do I want someone in my house that is psychotic enough to lie about being in the military? Absolutely not! There have been a few other things he has said that have bothered me. I want to know the truth. Is this guy straight up or a psycho? If his multiple military stories are not true, as his ex is convinced, I do not want this guy living in my house.
That is why I need to know. Scotty, I just used your site, since it was the first one I caught, with AP e-mail. I will fax this tomorrow, at work. MX2, I am going to take a look at your site now. I can't deal with a psycho living under my roof, rent or no rent.
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