Yeah, because who ticks us off more than our spouses and relatives? They are very important to us because we are so close to them; so criticism or infidelity or any other injury, which we would ignore in someone with whom we are not intimate, hurt us very deeply. Now, as is often said, guns don't kill people, people kill people.
But a furiously angry wife, having noticed her husband sneaking around and making a covert phonecall, listens and overhears , "You are my only love," and in the first flush of rage, deciding the faithless one must die, roars and runs to strangle him. He fights her off, or turns and runs outside, she chases him, but when she gets outdoors and sees other people she becomes self-conscious and stops for a moment and asks herself, 'Do I really want to spend the next 20 years in jail, or should I just divorce him?'
But if she grabs a gun instead, she just points and shoots, and if he runs, well, heck, he can't outrun a bullet.
Here in Canada, a gun permit carries rules;
1. Gun must be in a locked cabinet or have a trigger lock; the keys must be stored in another area of the home.
2. Ammunition must be stored in a locked box. The ammunition must be stored in an area, such as another room, away from the firearm. the key must be stored in yet another area.
3. Gun must be stored unloaded, both magazine and chamber.
(This is for hunting ("long") guns. Handgun rules are much, much stricter.)
So when she hears his sweet-talk, she must
- think "first I need the gun cabiner key", and fetch it
- think "next I need to unlock the cabinet", so she does, and gets the gun
- think, "now I gotta go get the ammunition box key", so she does, carrying the gun with her
- think "now I gotta go unlock the ammunition box, remove the cartridges, and load the gun", so she does
- think "now I gotta go kill my &%$*#@ husband", and then it occurs to her that it may not be worth it. The interval in which her brain was engaged in planning has allowed the homicidal emotional rush to dissipate.
So she goes to show him what a close call he had, just in time to hear him say, "Yes, and the engraving on the bracelet must be done in time for our anniversary, just a week away."
So this is one reason why we have fewer gunshot deaths per capita than, for example, Americans. Fewer guns. (Even if we include our gun-happy Albertans.)
It's just too much hassle. We're not intrinsically 'better', really we aren't. We just have fewer guns. So murder is personally riskier and more labor-intensive.
