how do you become a good kisser?? i need help on this one..... how can you tell if he's a good kisser? what do you do with the tongue in the mouth? i've kissed 1 person before and he was really bad im embarrassed to kiss anyone else... can't anyone help me??
******************************************** 12-27-02, 02:37 AM SeattleRon kissing is not just about the mouth. your eyes before you kiss has a lot to do with it. Also your hands and your body have to be into the kiss. Then your tongue. Don't jam it down there like a plumber looking to unclog a pipe. Use swift motions. Most importantly make sure your eyes are closed.
12-27-02, 06:16 PM pschick9 there really is no "right" way to kiss, its more what feels right and what your comfy w/. u cant really ask advice on kissin, everyone does it differently! once u get staretd just kinda do ur thing! not everyone will think ur a good kisser but there will be just as many ppl that will think u are! it depends on how they kiss and how they like it.....if u want u can try to follow their lead!! ohhh and always make sure ur lips are soft bc no one wants to kiss really really chapped lips! thats just my opinion, but sorry if i didnt help! wink
12-27-02, 07:04 PM cattywampus Many kisses have come my way in my 64 years, and I have learned a thing or two about how I like to be kissed.
First wetwet is no good. Sloppy and drooly is worse, and is liable to get you a fist full of my wool scarf in your mouth.
What I do with the tongue is enjoy it. My boyfriend has a big muscular tongue and I love the feel of it. I also like to lick the insides of his lips - so soft and sweet you can't imagine it! We all have this, and it was put there to enjoy.
I mostly date mature men, and they generally know how to kiss. But some complain that women don't, that their mouths are like purse strings, closed off and staying that way. What a turn off!
Put your all into it and you'll do all right.
Catty
12-27-02, 08:06 PM Sherasi I found quite a few websites on how to kiss, what to do, what NOT to do, you can type into a search engine "Kiss" or other variations on the word. I found one pretty good site on how to kiss .
12-29-02, 02:05 PM BlueJewel06 Kissing just comes naturally, like everybody said...there is not right or wrong way to kiss i guess, but people have preferences. Just relax and let it happen. Once you are actually into the kiss, if its any good I dont think you'll be thinking about what to do wink Most of all, just enjoy it! Kissing is fun and a good way to be close to someone.
04-06-03, 03:20 PM billabong¤gurl Kissing is fun and easy! It's ok to be average, NOONE'S PERFECT! Just go with the flow and imitate what the other person is doin unless you think that's not the way it's done! I have tried many things like twisting ur tongue in odd ways! Fun fun! I don't know anything other than that..... ~Wildflower63's daughter~
04-06-03, 03:28 PM billabong¤gurl Sherasi, Good site! Razz
04-18-03, 01:18 AM Yelena LMAO stanbee!
I once had this terrible experience with a guy you would expect the oppisite from, so all I have to say is do not UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES drool all over the poor guy/girl. They will be forever scarred.
Four words, lots of meaning. "Go with the flow."
04-21-03, 07:35 PM stanbee Yelena
We lead parallel lives. After the drool kiss with the cow tongue my "friend" vomited on all over the couch, just missed me -and wanted a second date. Never forgot that one!
04-21-03, 10:21 PM Yelena LMAO! A second date I'm sure....
A friend and I were once on a double date. She and her date went to a secluded corner, and she later told me he sucked very hard when they were kissing. Om the way to my house she told me the underside of her tounge was starting to hurt. Afterwards we found out he had sucked so hard he had actually popped a vien on her tounge! Needless to say they did not go out again...
Any other horror stories people?
05-22-03, 04:54 AM kaw like people have said before u , kissing is toatly natural. i remeber my first kiss, i wasnt expecting it at all. and when he kissed me i jus went wit the flow. and about the eyes. it doesnt matter. i do wit my eyes closed..but one of my b/f always kept his eyes open which kinda scared me but thats jus me.
05-24-03, 11:45 AM kittypal OMG, LMAO, I am so glad I read this thread!!! Smile
BTW, make sure your breath is good, this one guy I went out with about killed me with his odor!!! Eek Smile
08-09-03, 11:03 PM I Don't know Confused ....Problem!
-I kissed someone else and they said I didn't know how!! I looked at those sites and i took all your advice (and the websites) and followed those. Am i doing anything wrong? And how do you know if it's you slobbering or the other person??
08-10-03, 12:21 AM Texan-In-Exile I Don't know - I think the other person may be the one with the problem! If the two people kissing really care about each other, the kiss will be great, no matter what! If the guy is complaining about your kissing, I'd say he's concerned about the wrong thing. Kissing should be spontaneous - then it will be just fine naturally! Wink
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