Remember the concert and the guy i told you about? Well I just got home and I don't have his number, he doesn't have mine, and I'm probably never going to see him again. My friend goes to school with his friend, so should I tell her to pass along the message to the guy I like that I like him, or should I forget him. I really like him and now I 'm all depressed. What should I do? Thanks-BJ

If you like this guy, you can ask your friend to tell his friend that you enjoyed meeting him and perhaps you and he can grab a burger sometime.

the guy took you to the concert so he had to have contacted you somehow.....he knows your friend and if he decides to get your number, I'm sure it won't be too difficult.

Don't get all depressed about it - if he had a good time and likes you, he will figure out how to get in touch with you. When I was a teen, oftentimes, I had never given my number or even my address and they found me.....so the fact that you haven't given him your number means NOTHING!!

Lydia is absolutely right, as usual. What you want is a guy who will swim the sewer, climb to the top of the nearest microwave tower and bribe the mailman to find you. When you know you'd do the same for him, you're set.

Until then, you're only practicing.

Catty (who has suffered through this a thousand times before she found the microwave guy)

Let him track YOU down. You've been on a date now, so he obviously likes you. So now let nature take its course

Now, Puppy, wasn't that what I just said?