Recently, my boyrfriend on 7 months was invited to a party, but he stayed home so that he could hang out with me, which is what he said, but to others he sais he stayed home to see if he could get some action. why are guys such horndogs??? why is he using me?? it seems now all he wants is to fool around, and if i dont, he gets all pissy, what should i do?

Well, guys that age have raging hormones. THAT doesn't excuse his behavior if he's trying to do things with you that you don't want to do. No means no and if he can't get through his head, then tell him to move on.

He's probably telling his friends that so that he doesn't look like a 'wuss'. He didn't go to the party because he wanted to spend time with his girlfriend, and that would have made them give him a hard time.

All I can tell you is don't do something you are not ready for. There are too many risks involved and if he really cares for you, he'll wait until you are ready. Have a talk with him and tell him that you feel used and if he can't live with not messing around all the time, then maybe the two of you aren't meant to be together. See how he handles that.

It's hard being your age, I remember it well and I have a daughter going through the same stuff.

Take care and welcome to AnswerPool!

I guess he just wants to take the next step. You don't. Tell him you don't want to yet. It doesn't mean he doesn't love you either. He just wants action of some kind(you can call him a jerk all you want but if you think he doesn't really love you and you are willing to leave him, you can do it).

Why would someone make fun of you about spending time with your girlfriend? Spending time with your girlfriend is a normal part of any relationship.

Guys try to use girls 'only' because girls 'let' them. Girls got to stand up and tell the guys to get lost. What you want is just as important as what he wants.

Yes, you need to let him know that you dont want to go that far. I have a friend online, that had a b/f for a year, but recently, just figured out all he was interested in was her body. He is no longer her b/f, to say the least.

Nice Name!! Well, all I can say is guys are going to be guys. I agree with my mom (puppy) that he was probably just telling his friends that because he didnt want them to call him names just because he wanted to spend some alone time with his girlfriend.
Just make sure that you let him know how it makes you feel when you hear stuff like that, and if he still does it then all I can say is that you dont need him. If he is going to try to push you to do something that you dont want to do, then you can do much better then that. Welcome to Answerpool!!

guys are horndogs VivaBlam,
either one of two things he did.
he just told his friends that he wasn't goin to go, so could get in your pants.
Or he just told his friends that, just to look like a man, so they wouldn't see his sensitive side and he really wanted to spend time with you.
Don't give in because he's gettin pissed though. Thats not cool.
Just tell'em no means no, and if he doesn't understand that then thats his problem.
When I go out with a woman, know can sense straightup that she just wants a one nite stand.
If you're telling him No and the guy gets pissed. Then he's probably not even mature enough to realize that ain't cool.
If a woman says no to me, I don't wanna try to force myself on her. I just move on.
And thats the truth Viv@LaB@m

Some guys are reasonable and understanding, some are just petty and centered on one thing (sex). And some act one way in front of their friends and then another in front of their girlfriends.
What you need to do is stop worrying about what is up with him and figure out what you want. Are you happy in this relationship (would you be posting about it if you were?)? Do you like the way he treats you? Do you think it's right that he acts the way he does, that he gets "pissy" when you don't want to fool around?
The bottom line is this: you are in control of your own life. You make the decisions that affect you. If you are not happy, change things. If you don't like the way things are going, let him know.
And above all else, if you are not ready to fool around or don't want to do it all the time, you tell him that.

If he is not man enough to respect your wishes then he certainly does not deserve you.