Hello People

I just wondering what are you suppose to do with your g/f when you invite her to your house. A g/f that you just been out with on about 2 or 3 dates. I know it's quite stupid but I really can't think up of anything.

Thanks people



ko9000

Rent a movie
Have snacks to munch on
Pick out some music to listen to (nothing to heavy)

I dunno if this girl likes to play video games, but when I had boys over, we'd usually just hang out and play video games...I tried not to slaughter them TOO much on the fighter games

Just remember to relax and have fun

Oh..and one more thing...have your room clean (or at least decent) before she comes over.

Im a girl and I like playing video games, that would be fun, and rent some movies, I'd go with scary ones so she grabs ya when she's scared. Find out what kind of food she likes and have that. Just relax she'll have fun I bet. Godd luck!-BJ p.s. let us know how it goes!

This is your chance to really connect with this chick. Step back and devote the entire evening to her. Listen to her, look at her, and then come back and answer these questions:

1. What color nail polish did she have on?

2. What does she want to be when she grows up?

3. Does she have any hairs in her nose?

4. Is her mom a real booty or a witch?

5. When are you going to see her again? (Nothing so turns a girl off like leaving without another date arranged. Says plainly "I don't really care that much about you, honey.")

Catty (who wishes this was the extent of her problems)

A bunch of my friends are guys, so whenever i go over to their house, we play video games (even though i'm no good at all! (except duckhunter..i'm a good shot)

We shoot guns and compare targets, make food and eat it, go hiking, swimming, and watch tv. We play games, listen to music, play chess, and go places on his computer.

Just what normal friends would do I guess, well at least, thats what I do...

And i guess u could kiss or something else if you want. I don't, and you dont have to, but if you want to go ahead!

Just be careful if you do anything more than that... PLEASE.

I thought about playing video games with her...I mean how girl really actually like playing or enjoy playing video games? If so, what type should of games should I play with her? Any suggestions on a moive?


Well, thanks alot for all your ideas, thanks


ko9000

Well...I don't know about MOST girls, but I love video games and always have. I mean I still have the original Nintindo! Anyway...if you wanna go for games, try for the multiplayer types but avoid things that are just TOO guy-like. An example of a game that a girl may not like is Duke-Nuke 'Em....or Metal Gear Solid....heck...do you just have a computer or do you have a game system? I may be able to reccommend a game if you tell me what you have.

As for movies, you may want to go for Spider Man if she's not seen it yet. It just came out and I liked it. As for scary movies, old "B" rated horror flicks are always fun...creepy and laughable at the same time! Don't go for any RECENT "B" horror movies since most of those are just stupid and not creepy or funny. My personal favorites are old vampire movies. They can be awesome even if the effects are cheesy and the acting cheesier. You may even want to go for an old classic like Exorcist or Psycho....it amazes me how many young people have never seen these movies! Alfred Hitchcock is great too....personally I kinda like the black and whites...I think they're more romantic somehow.

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Originally posted by cattywampus:
This is your chance to really connect with this chick. Step back and devote the entire evening to her. Listen to her, look at her, and then come back and answer these questions:

1. What color nail polish did she have on?

2. What does she want to be when she grows up?

3. Does she have any hairs in her nose?

4. Is her mom a real booty or a witch?

5. When are you going to see her again? (Nothing so turns a girl off like leaving without another date arranged. Says plainly "I don't really care that much about you, honey.")

Catty (who wishes this was the extent of her problems)

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Ummm...I guess I am totally out of date....but what is "a real booty"? Is that a good thing? I mean...I know what *I* think booty means and I can't imagine wanting a guy to think that way about his girlfriend's mom.....

take her on a tour of your house....
always end the tour in the kitchen where you can then offer her a drink or some kind of snack.
head to the living room and turn on some music,
sit on the couch and drink your sodas and start asking questions, unless you have cool things to show her like your backyard or something.
just don't make any intense moves its only been 3 dates.
Remember to make sure your house is really clean, that your room has nothing embarassing laying out, underware, dirty magazines, whatever. and clean your bathroom and hide any embarassing things in your medicine cabinet.
cause whenever i go to a girls house i always look in the medicine cabinet for some reason and find weird creams or crazy pills.
Don't want her thinking you got some kind of fungus.

Omigosh! I just saw u were only on your third date. Geez. I thought you were just looking for MORE ideas of things to do, not just things to do.

Lemme tell you- girls can be different as night and day.

I think we would be more helpful if you told us what kind of a girl she is. I mean, is she sporty, popular, shy, in band or choir, or a nature person? Does she laugh a lot? Is she really sensitive? Does she have a lot of friends or just a few? Does she paint her nails or let them natural? Is she a trend-setter? Does she like cooking?

See- because a girl who's popular and trendsetting with painted nails might not want to go on a 2 hour long hike. (which may not even be a possibility where you are. its something my best friend used to do all the time with her boyfriends)

And a girl who loves gardening, cooking, mountain biking, and running might not enjoy sitting in someones room listening to popular music and just talking.

Um, for movies, I'd recommend Spiderman, Monty Python ANYTHING *especially Holy Grail and especially if she's in band*, old movies like Psycho and The Birds crack me up. But ask her if there's anything she'd like to rent too.

Since I don't know much about NINTENDO or GAMEBOY or what have you....(I'm more of a COMPUTER GAME person).... I wouldn't be able to suggest much. Just make sure YOU know how to play it and set it up (cause you dont want to look stupid in front of her ) and the controls are easy enough to understand.

Do NOT plan to play games that are long "quests" like Zelda or something like that which will cause her to be sitting on your floor, couch, bed, or whatever and be bored out of her mind while you sit there and ignore her. Make sure you both get equal turns (or at least semi-equal.) If its something like Mario Brothers and she keeps dying, give her some of your 100 extra lives. She'll think you're sweet...

Any more questions please ask.