Hey the guy I like invited me to his concert on the 16th and I cant wait to go cuz I haven't seen him in 2 weeks. But I'm afraid that after the show I wont see him again because either he won't ask me out or I'll lose my nerve to ask him. He's pretty shy and so am I so I don't know what will happen. What should I do? I don't want it to be the last time I see him because I really like him. Thanks, BJ

Go to his concert, enjoy yourself, and if you get to see him right after, slip your hand in his, wink and smile and say, "Call me."

Bet he does it, too.

Catty (oh, for the old days!)

enjoy the concert, but if you want him to call you write your number down and fold it and palm it in your hand, then hold his hand for about 3 seconds and slip it in there, walk away casually and smile. he should get the hint.

Ron, that's great for a secret romance, but teens.

Be straight forward. No secrets. Have fun. Don't be overly aggressive, but be sure he knows your feelings. If you enjoyed the evening and or time with him, let him know. Nature will take it from there. The first date is always the hardest for us shy types. Yes, I speak with authority. I was always shy though out school. Waited to late to ask a girl out. In those days, a girl never ask a guy out unless it was a party or something like that. When we finally made it, we went together for a long time. The first time is always the hardest.

what if they like it though when the girl is overly agressive? i like that. no not sexually, but like getting her point across. i always feel more confident when i know for sure the girl totally digs me.

Hey Ron, we are talking teens here. I don't think Over Aggressive should be part of it. He/she can make their point with out being aggressive. Holding hands, peck on the check good night, "thanks for a wonderful time, let's do it again sometime." The list goes on.

I got the message.


I guess I'm just old school.

IF by the end of the night, he hasn't asked you out again...and you think it's because he's shy...just slip your number into his hand while you're holding it. You don't even have to say anything. He'll get the point and if he doesn't call, you'll get the point