Me and my girl friend never get time to be alone. Now and in the past we would go in to class rooms not being used at school and kiss and other stuff like that. We both have are temps. driver linceses but until then we can't go out on a date. She does not like being in a privite room with me because she thinks I would do something innapproate for school. I tell her I would not do any thing like that. I want to be alone with her but how? Any advice?

I wouldn't suggest being along with her at school. Whether the room is vacant or not, it is inapporpiate at school, not too mention you could both get into trouble, if caught.

Why doesn't one of you go over to the others house? You could maybe spend some time together alone there. Perhaps you two could go to a nearby park or something.

If you you aren't gonna do anything inappropiate, reassure her that you never would. And make sure you follow through that.

Judging from your profile, your birthday is in May. Is hers that much farther off? It may seem like a long wait but before you know it, you will both have your licenses and can officialy date.

In the meantime, if you really like this girl, you will jsut have to spend what time you can with her. Whether it is alone or with other people.

At this time it sounds like your girl is interested in a relationship with you, it also sounds like she is being cautious about her and your reputation (no bad thing in this day and age).

Why not give yourself some time and enjoy what you have. Take some nice walks, parks and other semi-rural areas like Esencia suggested are not a bad idea, fun and get some exercise too.

If you arent interested in doing anything innappropriate with your girlfriend, then you two shouldnt need 100% privacy. You can go to places with other people around. I agree that anything more than a peck on the cheek or so is innapropriate for school...and watch your reputations (as Sherasi said) bc they can be ruined very easily these days.

Try taking her on a picinic or something like that. you two could have time alone with that. Or maybe try riding your bikes together.

D,

bike into the Drive-In theatre!

I agree with all the suggestions+opinions here.
essencia:"I wouldn't suggest being along with her at school. Whether the room is vacant or not, it is inapporpiate at school, not too mention you could both get into trouble, if caught."
Sherasi:" Why not give yourself some time and enjoy what you have. Take some nice walks, parks and other semi-rural areas like Esencia suggested "
BlueJewel06 :" If you arent interested in doing anything innappropriate with your girlfriend, then you two shouldnt need 100% privacy. "

Plus,
Valentines Day is right ahead,
if you want to keep the relationship private (which I fail to understand why) then just mail her someting cute!

Buckets full o'Luck,
Pin~JInx / anarchist

[This message was edited by Pin~Jinx on 01-17-03 at 03:47 AM.]

everyone be all adult up in here.
Sounds like your problem is time alone. you want to be alone with your girl?
Every weekend there are parties all the time in high school. Tell your parents that your spending the night at your best friends house. Your best friend is in on it too, tell her to do the same, then you can both meet up at the party. All the time alone you need man.

Ron, I am not surprised that YOU would come up with that suggestion.

I do not think it an appropriate solution to there problems. If my kid, boy or girl, would ever pull something like that on me, they would not only be grounded for life, but would not be able to sit down for a month.

That, my dear lad, is not what I would call an appropriate answer.

"O, what a tangled web we weave when first we practise to deceive!" -- Sir Walter Scott

Ron! Bad boy!
These people are NOT adults!
This means that your answer could lead not only to personal problems, but legal ones as well!

Doug - You have gotten some very good advice here (except for Ron's ).
I know that a few months seems like forever right now...
But honest - it will pass before you know it!
And wanna know something? The less time you get to spend alone, the more you'll enjoy it when you do!

my advice may have been inapropriate. i was just trying to help the guy out a lil. my bad.

You titled your post "love," but believe me, you have plenty of time to experience real love, whether it is with this girl or some other girl.
I agree that it is inappropriate to "kiss and other stuff" at school. And if she does not feel comfortable with it, you have to respect that.
Everyone has given you really good advice about things you can do to get some time together. There must be places you can walk or bike to, and don't you have any friends or relatives who would give you a ride to a restaurant or movie theatre? I know it's very uncool to have to depend on others like that, but if you want some alone time, you might just have to suck it up.
You have not answered why you can't just spend time with each other at each other's houses. That seems like a good option to me.

But believe me, you have plenty of time. Concentrate on your studies while you are in school. There is plenty of time for other stuff, later.
Remember, there are 101 ways to make love without having sex.

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Originally posted by SeattleRon: Every weekend there are parties all the time in high school.

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What high school did you go to? That sounds more like college to me!