Hi everyone-
Ive been feeling really sad lately and Ive discovered something about myslef I didnt realize before, and now Im afraid everyone will think Im crazy and boys wont want to date me (as if they did before) Im not even going to tell you guys maybe if you email me I will, and I cant even tell my mom. And the guy I love is gone I cant find a way to get to him and Im just really sad. What should I do Im sick of crying myself to sleep every night. Thanks

Hey Larien!
Dude, dont pay attention to people that dont understand. They just r ingorant. Its nothing to be ashamed of. Be proud of who you r. your a great friend and person and i bet there r guys out there that like you for who you r and they r just as nervous as u r. Just be yourself and hope for the best. and please try to go for guys that r attanable. and im always here for you if you need me.

~Gidget

Can You Guys Please Answer This Question For My Friend. She's Still Depressed And I Dont Know What Else To Say To Her. Thanks!
~Gidget

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Originally posted by BandaiJ:
Hi everyone-
Ive been feeling really sad lately and Ive discovered something about myslef I didnt realize before, and now Im afraid everyone will think Im crazy and boys wont want to date me (as if they did before) Im not even going to tell you guys maybe if you email me I will, and I cant even tell my mom. And the guy I love is gone I cant find a way to get to him and Im just really sad. What should I do Im sick of crying myself to sleep every night. Thanks

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Would you be willing to provide a few more details about what you have discovered about yourself? Was it something you had no control over? Is it something you can change? You sound like an adolescent, and I'll tell you that is a rough time of life to live through. You feel insecure and unhappy most of the time.

As far as being depressed about a guy you no longer have contact with; from what you said, you weren't really dating, or am I wrong in assuming this was love from afar.. that is he didn't know you liked him? That is also something most of us had to deal with as youngsters your age. I had quite a few crushes who didn't know (I HOPE!!) I loved them.

If your grades are suffering or you are gaining or losing alot of weight, I'd suggest going to see one of your school councelors if you don't want to talk to your mom. BTW, why don't you want to talk to your mom? Is she related to this problem you just discovered?

You are welcome to e-mail me to talk some more if you want to. I am a nurse and I am used to helping out people who need it. My e-mail is in my profile... just click on my name.

Good luck.
~Sher~

i'm willing to help, but as Sherasi said, the details are slim. My email is also in my profile.

[This message was edited by Karrow on 01-17-03 at 10:03 PM.]

You may e-mail me as well, if you wish.
Without any further information, the best I can do is ask if you are confortable with yourself, with this new thing you've discovered about yourself? If you are, then everyone else can go screw. What matters is that YOU are happy with YOU.