My girlfriend and I have only been together for 1 week, but I want to buy her something to show her how I feel about her thus far. I think she actually wanted an anklet for Christmas. I want to buy it online since all my cash money has dried up because of the upcoming holiday and all I have now is $105.00 is my pay pal account.

I was wondering if anyone could please recommend a place where I can buy a nice gold anklet for her online, preferably at wholesale price?

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Bryce, you've been together 1 week. 2weeks by the time you probably read this. Jewelry is way too strong my friend. 1 of 2 things are going to happen. She's either using you and is a gold digger. Or you're moving way too fast and you're gonna scare her away.
My friend don't move too fast like that. You've only been with her a week. Don't empty your bank account for her bud.
Look man, a good Holiday gift and I can save you money on this. trust me it works.

Get a Hallmark card, write something sensitive in it. Cook her a dinner you made yourself at your house. Then after the dinner just sit back watch some movie.

Keep it light bro, you've only been with her a week. Don't come on too strong, and don't make it obvious that you like her.

( keep the dinner very light, she might be a vegetarian, you can't go wrong with a pasta and a light sauce meatless. )


( and keep it down to 2 courses, a light salad, then the main course. Remember red meat Red wine, Good Fish white wine fits the Dish.)

Good Luck Buddy!!!!

Bryce. Take it from me. You should read twice what Ron just wrote and then read it again! Never was truer word spoken.It's way too soon to be thinking of jewellery. If she likes you she likes you and buying her the Crown Jewels of England wouldn't make any difference! If she is neutral or just thinking whether she wants to be with you then she'll be frightened away by such a gift.She'd be too embarrassed to wear it, anyway, after such a short acquaintance.

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She's either using you and is a gold digger. Or you're moving way too fast and you're gonna scare her away.

I believe he's moving too fast. I hope he listens to you, Ron.

Great advice ROn....listen to what he said...as a girl I would feel funny recieving such a gift after one week.

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Originally posted by kittypal:
...as a girl I would feel funny recieving such a gift after one week.

Hmm. But as a grown, mature, experienced woman...?

I wouldn't be surprised if someone popped up with a wonderful wholesale place to buy gold.

I almost moved this to "Shopping", but decided not to- I suspect this post of being not quite legitimate but it does address the important issue of "What is 'too much' or 'too fast'?"
NEVER, and I do mean never, give anything "personal" as a gift this early- a book,CD, flowers or candy/gourmet bakery goodies are great gifts for this beginning phase, but anything a person wears- even a scarf- is simply too intimate, it's pushy.

A "nice girl" would not be comfortable accepting jewelry from someone she's been seeing for such a short time and to present it puts her in an awful position- either hurt you by refusing it or keep it, feeling compromised.
You don't want the girl who has no problem recieving jewelry before you're an established couple.

I wonder when the ad will appear...

That said -one week is MUCH too soon to be buying anything for anyone, especially jewelry. It might be more creepy than endearing.

That's good. 1 month is enough to know someone and to fell in love. To fall in love it takes only sec and you have spend one month so, you can get help from Larimar jewelry at www.laurabonetti.com

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Right on Mrs S!

Gizmo deserves most of the the credit, since that's where I learned about that link

Jeremy seems to have a poor memory, or be a slow learner.
His first advertising venture on AnswerPool.

But I do want to thank him for his entertainment value. Every comedy team needs a stooge. (And how is margarehi and Abraham, Jeremy? Did the wedding go well? I hope it was a very special night for some very special people.)

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Hmm. But as a grown, mature, experienced woman...?

Here, Kitty.

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Originally posted by kittypal:
Great advice ROn....listen to what he said...as a girl I would feel funny recieving such a gift after one week.

There goes my one week vacation to Michigan and Kitty's present.

Of course, for someone that you don't quite think is ready for the jewelry, you can always do a terrific "candy wrapper chain"...instructions can be found Here



(S, this is the site I was looking for the other night but was doing .com instead of .net)

@ fred

Jelp and DG a girl can make exceptions!!! (so can a grown, mature, experienced woman)

I wouldn't say no to this:

the biggest piece of jewelry I've ever given a woman was a pin in the shape of a clover. Supposed to be lucky and whatever.