How can you tell if someone i think its called has a logger on your computer?

There are programs you can download to check for a logger.

Free Trial of Who's Watching Me

Or To keep your privacy keep your spyware detectors updated and run Adaware from www.lavasoft.com

I did notice when I typed "Keylogger" (correct term) in, I got more tools on how to do it than prevent it
Like a tell tale "Net Nanny" is the way its being promoted
If I let one of these near any of my friends computers It would be a "concrete overcoat" for me if they found out I had been remotely browsing
I do have full remote control on XP.But only to fix a fault/or share on another XP computer (so I can access that information)
Not used it yet And there are security protocol links to be lifted. before I can start using it And it does leave a date /time "stamp" ect., logged on the visited computer of my "visit" which is good

Thanks guys i appreciate all your time and effort you took to help me ...ill check these out