Hi SS

I did a topic oh Herport about this very thing. I know you aren't a teenager still, but a lot of this could apply to you and help you out.

Depression affects people of all ages, but the adolescent years carry special risks. This is a time of transition, and it’s often very stressful. Most young people handle the ups, downs and uncertainties fairly well.
However, some teens feel overwhelmed, and mistakenly think they have nowhere to turn, they may start ‘self-medicating’ their pain with alcohol or other drugs, or they may turn to acts of violence.
Some symptoms of depression:Lack of enthusiasm, energy or motivation
Social withdrawal or isolation
Sadness or hopelessness
Confusion or difficulty with decisions
Drop in school performance
Problems with eating or sleeping
Low self-esteem or guilt
Abuse of alcohol and other drugs
Problems with authority
Anxiety or phobias (exaggerated fears)
Perfectionism
Restlessness
It’s not unusual for young people to experience "the blues" or feel "down in the dumps" occasionally. Adolescence is always an unsettling time, with the many physical, emotional, psychological and social changes that accompany this stage of life.
Unrealistic academic, social, or family expectations can create a strong sense of rejection and can lead to deep disappointment. When things go wrong at school or at home, teens often overreact. Many young people feel that life is not fair or that things "never go their way." They feel "stressed out" and confused. To make matters worse, teens are bombarded by conflicting messages from parents, friends and society. Today’s teens see more of what life has to offer — both good and bad — on television, at school, in magazines and on the Internet. They are also forced to learn about the threat of AIDS, even if they are not sexually active or using drugs.
Teens need adult guidance more than ever to understand all the emotional and physical changes they are experiencing. When teens’ moods disrupt their ability to function on a day-to-day basis, it may indicate a serious emotional or mental disorder that needs attention — adolescent depression. Parents or caregivers must take action.
Dealing With Adolescent Pressures
When teens feel down, there are ways they can cope with these feelings to avoid serious depression. All of these suggestions help develop a sense of acceptance and belonging that is so important to adolescents.
Try to make new friends. Healthy relationships with peers are central to teens’ self-esteem and provide an important social outlet.
Participate in sports, job, school activities or hobbies. Staying busy helps teens focus on positive activities rather than negative feelings or behaviors.
Join organizations that offer programs for young people. Special programs geared to the needs of adolescents help develop additional interests.
Ask a trusted adult for help. When problems are too much to handle alone, teens should not be afraid to ask for help.
But sometimes, despite everyone’s best efforts, teens become depressed. Many factors can contribute to depression. Studies show that some depressed people have too much or too little of certain brain chemicals. Also, a family history of depression may increase the risk for developing depression. Other factors that can contribute to depression are difficult life events (such as death or divorce), side-effects from some medications and negative thought patterns.
Recognizing Adolescent Depression
Adolescent depression is increasing at an alarming rate. Recent surveys indicate that as many as one in five teens suffers from clinical depression. This is a serious problem that calls for prompt, appropriate treatment. Depression can take several forms, including bipolar disorder (formally called manic-depression), which is a condition that alternates between periods of euphoria and depression.
Depression can be difficult to diagnose in teens because adults may expect teens to act moody. Also, adolescents do not always understand or express their feelings very well. They may not be aware of the symptoms of depression and may not seek help.
I know this is really long, but I hope you will find the time to read it. Also, visit us at Herport. There's a lot of good information there on the subject.
Hope this helped and good luck to you. You'll be on my prayer list.
