I have to be blunt because this is really upsetting me. I haven't had sex with my girlfriend in over a month. I would never cheat on her, the thought of sex with another person disgusts me. But whenever we have the chance and don't take it, the last two days I've ended up very upset and crying when she says no. It's very frustrating, not just because of the physical aspect, but because I feel much more close to her when we make love.

Is something wrong with me?
Am I overreacting for a reason beyond my control, or do I just suck?

And yes, I've told her all of this.

I'm puzzled. Your profile says you're male. Only women can be nymphomaniacs. In males the corresponding condition is satyriasis.

And whether you're a woman who thinks of herself as a man, or a man who's got his terminology mixed up, no indeed, you are not disordered.

She may be depressed. Or resentfully angry. That can kill libido. Try not to over-react until she starts talking to you. Be patient.

If she only says no on occasion I wouldn't say she is resentful or angry, she might just not be in the mood...Try not to get angry or upset when she does say no, all that will do IS cause resentment and stress.

I don't think you are sex obsesses, most guys are harder to turn off than women.

Bab, I didn't know men couldn't be nymphomaniacs, I thought the term was for both sexes....See what you learn here!

My question relates more to the ages of the 2 people involved.......

Gold Girl, did you accidentally post to the wrong question? What question of yours do you refer to? Or are you... Never mind.

Kittypal, guys can be maniacs over nymphos, but not nymphomaniacs.