My mom doesn't believe that I could have Social Anxiety Disorder, and I think without a doubt that I have it. The reason it's such a big deal right now is because I have to take a speech class next semester and we're fighting about it b/c I just don't think I can do it. I get COMPLETELY red, stutter, mind goes blank, and sweat. But this isn't the only time it happens, b/c I know other people have that problem. I get nervous when I even am just calling in a food order over the phone or when I'm talking on the phone to someone I don't know all that well, even though they can't see me! Also, I remember in high school I worked at the elementary school and they wanted us to read to the Kindergarten kids and I couldn't even do that! To kids that could CARE LESS whether I mess up. Anyone that I don't really know that start talking to me, just makes me turn RED and sweaty. It's SO embarrassing!! What do I do?
I do not think you have social anxiety disorder. Someone with social anxiety disorder has a hard time even going to the store, because they think everyone is staring at them. They have trouble even writing checks, because they think someone at the bank will laugh at their handwriting or that they will do it wrong. They have trouble even attending college because they can't deal with having to be around other people, for fear of being rejected.
I think you are afraid of public speaking. Unfortuntely, the only way to overcome a fear of speaking in public is to speak in public.
Here is more info on social anxiety disorder, which should clear up the difference. Good luck!
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MommyTimes Two..you described my hubbys condition almost to a tee.He has been diagnosed with Social phobia.(besides depression. paranioa/schizophrenia.) Thanks for the link!
