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Originally posted by Jelp01:
....when I learn a little self-control. I made a 1 1/2 pound loaf of white bread and practically ate the whole thing in one sitting. Not an ideal practice for someone who's trying to lose weight!
This comment I would like to focus on for a moment:
It is a "Little Vulture Comment". "Little Vultures" are comments and thoughts which circle over our heads swooping down out of the blue and tearing off a piece of our self esteem when ever we make a derogatory remark about or on ourself. Vultures are creations of the individuals mind and are solely controlled by the individual. They start off as childhood eggs of criticism wrought on us by Parents, Teachers, Media, our peers, well the sources are many. They hatch around about Puberty - sometimes later when a specific event takes place, such as getting extra padding around the middle, and they have a very long life span. A single Vulture can eat at your Self Esteem for Years. Some Vultures never die. The Damage done by vultures is a horror, they take away self esteem, self worth, love, trust, and dreams. Little Vultures have caused many deaths - Each suicide that takes place is most likely caused in the hands of a Flock of Vultures - sometimes all it takes is a single vulture.
This particular Vulture caught my eye simply because I think it got several pieces here. First it lowered your expectation of "diet" second it lowered your self worth when it came to trying new things - And maybe it even did a bit of damage to your enthusiasm for bread making. - The addition of "Self Control" issues had the Vulture carry away an extra meal or two of your self esteem - you basically said you do not possess self control. Not only that it went public, which in itself is able to render you (its victim) helpless before the public world.
I want for you to consider this, though you ate nearly a whole loaf of home made bread, Did you also eat three meals that day? Or did the bread become a meal? I'm willing to place dollars that the bread became a whole meal in and of itself.
Second, are you in the habit of eating whole loaves of bread everyday? Even if you did, would you also be eating three big meals and just adding a loaf of bread to your daily diet? Even if you did, why is it so bad that you feel that it is a self control issue and not an issue that you have your head on straight and know and understand the joy of Home Made bread?
There is a Rule of Thumb to Home Made Bread. You bake at least one loaf per person present along with an additional loaf per person for the remaining week.
Why? Because of all of our wonders of the Information Age we still all fall for the smell, texture and taste of fresh, warm homemade bread. The power of Home Made Bread is such that many real-estate agents will add to their "selling" list - "Bake a loaf of bread" - The smell alone can sell a house much more than the large yard, the swimming pool, the fresh paint, new carpet - et al. No one has "self control" when it comes to fresh homemade bread - If they do they are not human and should never be trusted.
Let this Vulture go, set it free and be happy that you enjoyed fresh baked bread. Enjoying a loaf of fresh baked bread is one of the simpler pleasures in life - it doesn't get much simpler than that and it is one of the few pleasures that all of us can enjoy together.