Diamond Enthusiast


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I have successfully introduced a kitten into an older cat's space, following the advice I read in a book on cat psychology.
The book said the commonest (and easiest) mistake that people make is to make a fuss over the kitten. This convinces the older cat he is not special any more. He loses his self-respect, and may stop grooming (or over-groom) and develop dirty habits.
The trick, the book said, was to praise the older cat for the kitten, as if he had produced it! When the kitten comes frolicking into the room, charming everyone, instead of going 'OOH! How adorable! (all eyes on the kitten), turn to the older cat and say 'What a clever cat you are, to have such a great kitten!' Pats and strokes to the older cat are not wasted, either.
No, the cat doesn't understand the words, but gets the message. This newcomer is somehow the cause of praise and approval for HIMSELF!
Then, in a different context, gently and reassuringly re-introduce the older cat to a clean litter box. (Might be best to have separate boxes, since urination is a form of territory-marking for cats.) Give him lots of cuddle-time, apart from the kitten.
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